When you work
This post is not gonna be long, I suppose.
There are 4 levels of work:
Level 1: You do it because of the reward.
Level 2: You do it because to avoid punishment.
Level 3: You do it out of duty (you know you have to)
Level 4: You do it out of love (because you love that person, and just want to help out)
Level 4 is the deepest. Do it for the reson of doin it. Do it because you love that peron, because you want to ease that person's burden.
When you work for anyone, be it God, be it household work, be it for your family, your friend. As in do a so-called "chore", for anyone, do it on level 4.
Do it the same for your family and friends as if you would do it for God. Work as if its for Hm. It's His commandment. Furthermore, it's our loved ones! We must do out part, out of love, as a gesture!